January 14th is Diary Day in South Korea

Yup, it’s the 14th of the month which means it’s another “love” holiday in South Korea.

What are “love” holidays? Glad you asked!

Every 14th of each month is an unofficial holiday for people to express their affection in some romantic way. That’s why they’re called “love” holidays.

But they’re not holidays in the sense that anyone is excused from work or anything. Although I’m sure they would love that! Who wouldn’t?

Dear Diary…

January 14th is designated as Diary Day where couples give exchange diaries or planners. Diaries may include their hopes and dreams, blah, blah, blah…. Sorry, I’m just not one for those kinds of sentiments, as sweet as it is.

And planners should marked with their birthdays, anniversaries, future plans, and other important dates. This is more my style. It’s downright practical!

But neither a diary nor a planner floats their boat, they can opt to get a candle instead. It’s also apparently Candle Day. I’m not sure why it’s also Candle Day but I guess they had to fit it in somewhere, since candles can be romantic as well.

These candles are usually decorative but I suppose they could also be prayer candles if they have a big test coming up or some other event that needs praying over. Either way, it’s still a thoughtful gift.

I don’t know who decided what “love” holiday would fall in for each month. It was likely a department store, much like how we refer to some holidays in the States as “Hallmark” holidays. They were probably made up to promote sales. Don’t take that as a cynical comment though. I actually like all these holidays. It gives me a chance to take a moment and be more thoughtful.

I don’t think of these holidays as times where I have to do something, but rather as chances that I get to do something. I know that sounds hokey, but seriously, I’d completely forget to do something nice otherwise.

Let’s face it. It’s easy to take people for granted and lose all track of time!

And that’s the thing about January’s “love” holiday gifts. The diary, planner, and candle all mark the passage of time. I don’t know if that’s why it’s designated to January, the first month of a new year, but it makes sense.

It’s not just a diary or planner. It’s the promise of a new year, new plans, and fresh starts!

So go out there and get that new diary, planner, or candle for your significant other…or yourself!

Do you celebrate South Korea’s “love” holidays? Share in the comments!